I recently became single again after years in a relationship. One of the first things I did was sign up for Tinder and some other dating apps. It was exciting to be back in the dating world. As I scrolled through the pics I kind of felt like I was shopping for a new car. Or a used one now that I am in my forties. I matched with a few women on the first day and text messages starting going back and forth. I finally decided to take the leap and ask the woman I found attractive and interesting out on a date. Nothing big, we met for happy hour at a local bar and the date was awkward at first, but then we both settled down. She was a great girl and I really liked her company but there were no sparks for me. As the date came to a close I asked for the check and paid it. My date said thank you an...